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Saturday, November 5, 2011

What Guys/Girls Wish You Knew


Drop the mask
Put "looks" in its place
Be a warrior
Less criticism, more support
Remember the good guy
http://www.boundless.org/2005/articles/a0001302.cfm

What girls wish you knew (to guys):
Show some respect
Be kind to everyone
Seek out spiritual guidance and accountability
Love your family
Take marriage seriously
Take initiative
Take a risk
http://www.boundless.org/2005/articles/a0001303.cfm

And...
Another hilarious (but pretty truthful) article about Why You're Not Married
Truthfully, I've been a bit selfish (oh...the career vs. family dilemma), a little self-degrading, and occasionally, a bit of a "b***" (especially if I like someone - oops).  

Memorable Ob/gyn rotation moments


  • Lady with a fibroid the size of a 20wk baby + extensive adhesions to her bladder.  Probably 5+ lbs.
  • "They're gonna fall!" - warning from a really nice lady with BMI of 60 who I was going to do a breast exam on.  That was a difficult exam.
  • Bowel run on a woman with 3 prior C-sections and extensive adhesions.
  • Missed uterine pregnancy in woman with ruptured ectopic, later came back with abortion of the uterine pregnancy. 
  • Really nice family from Ethiopia.
  • DELIVERING A REAL, LIVE BABY GIRL!!!
  • Finding out that my resident thought I was too "intense."  Haha, still get a crack out of that one.
  • Alpine ski fiasco
And my new near-favorite blog: poormd.com
A better understanding of hysterectomies: http://www.poormd.com/feeds/posts/default

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Dating, Relating, and Fornicating

Sometimes it's good to think of the big scheme of things.  Some good advice and interesting statistics: http://pastormark.tv/2011/10/26/dating-relating-and-fornicating

"Too many singles have a list of what they are looking for in a spouse. The problems with this are many. First, most singles don’t know what they really need for fifty years of God-glorifying marriage. Second, the list is usually just their resume and a form of idolatry, as if marrying someone just like you is necessarily a good thing. Third, the list usually does not account for the future, like the guy who told me it was very important that his future wife love rock climbing, until I explained to him that if they had as many kids as he was hoping for she would not be rock climbing much since it’s not the ideal activity for a pregnant lady. (<--haha, this thought was amusing)  Fourth, how about a list NOT FOR THE PERSON YOU WANT TO MARRY BUT RATHER A LIST FOR YOU! It seems very selfish to make a list of what someone else needs to be for you if you don’t have a detailed list for yourself and what you need to be for them..."

Thursday, October 27, 2011

When Sad and Feeling Inadequate

“Those who sow in tears shall reap with joyful shouting. He who goes to and fro weeping, carrying his bag of seed, Shall indeed come again with a shout of joy, bringing his sheaves with him.” - Psalm 126:5,6


Friends.


They have not the tongue of the eloquent, but they may have the hand of the diligent. They cannot stand and preach, but they can stand and distribute here and there these silent preachers … (Charles Spurgeon)


God is good.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

PATB #2 - Frustration

Parents Are The Best #2

Here's another email from my parents that made me appreciate what wonderful people I have around me, especially my parents:


That’s OK.  Sometimes frustration is a kind of blessing: It may let you to pause a little while and take a look around and you will find so many good things around you.  There are still plenty things to thank for.  We pray for your coming practice.  We always think you will be a very good doctor with a loving heart and hard working.

Love you

Mom & Dad

Saturday, October 22, 2011

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Man - so strange

Haha, so true:

(nicksarnicola.com)

Fitness Class for Kids

Today I got a groupon ad for fitness classes for kids. really? has it really come down to this?

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Emails from my dad


Here's an email from my dad regarding the story my brother (Bong) wrote-- makes me smile!:

Finally, Bong finished his story according to your comments(do not know yet).  Please take a look and see how it is.  He was so funny that he even laughed when he was typing on his bed this morning (looks like a real busy author.  Actually Mom and I pushed him many times and set tomorrow as dead line).  He must feel funny about his own story.

Mom and I will go to a short mission tomorrow in Washington state university.  That’s our first real mission since becoming Christians.  The fun part is that we found our Oklahoma hostess family, who led us to God, in facebook yesterday.  It has been twenty years since we left there.  Anyway praying for us that God is leading the mission.

Have a nice weekend

Love you

Dad

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

In This Rape Center the Patient Was 3

The following article was shocking:
"IN a rape treatment center here, I met a 3-year-old patient named Jessica, who was cuddling a teddy bear.
Jessica had seemed sick and was losing weight, but she wouldn’t say what was wrong. Her mother took her to a clinic, and a doctor ferreted out the truth. She had been raped and was infected with gonorrhea..."
In-This-Rape-Center-the-Patient-Was-3 (ED)

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Genius

Here's to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They're not fond of rules, and they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them; disagree with them; glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can't do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do.
-Apple "Think Different" Campaign


This definitely reminds me of someone

Monday, September 5, 2011

Joplin Trip

Just came back from a trip to Joplin organized by my church.  I had no idea what to expect, but I was still surprised by all the destruction that took place and how disastrous the houses, the lands, and the buildings looked.  It was especially disturbing to see the hospital completely deserted and the high school imploded upon itself as if someone punched it from the top.  Yet, despite it all, there were bulldozers demolishing old buildings, fresh new stores that still retained the smell of a recent paint job, and volunteers standing in 100 degree weather painting colorful murals that standout against the rest of the town.

Our job was pretty simple - didn't require too much thinking, but just required a bit of physical labor and happy conversation with the other volunteers.  There were 23 of us total, ranging from business man to cupcake manager, from improv instructor to Six Flags event planner.  It was a good group of people, and we had our share of fun sharing our lives and enjoying the hot or cold weather.  We mostly cleaned up various lots that had branches, shingles, metal pieces, and whatever you can think of scattered about the land.  There was a lot of bending down and raking that resulted in some very sore backs and hamstrings.

One of the families had a house that was deemed irreparable, so the whole house was knocked over.  But there was one shack that looked like a miniature barn that remained standing and required some fixing.  However, the only person who knew how to fix it was the 80-something father who wasn't the lightest of the bunch.  He definitely knew his shed well given that he built it himself some 5 years ago, but given the 100+ degree weather, no one else thought it was wise for him to be climbing on a teetering ladder 10-20 feet above the ground.  So, we heard their story, and helped them fix up the shed with some screws, hammers, and saws.  Turns out the father had actually been a cowboy in his younger days, retired with no house or compensation, worked with habitat for humanity, and eventually obtained a shotgun house from them.  During the storm, he was away, and fortunately his daughter and her husband were safe.  The insurance, however, refused to acknowledge that house was bad enough that it needed to be rebuilt, so they have refused to pay up.  Now they have lived from hotels to trailers.

Another family we worked with needed rocks to be picked up.  Although initially sounding like a non-glamorous job, we discovered a great story.  The son had actually moved to the area a month before, and he considered it a blessing because otherwise, he would've had to drive down 15 hrs with no job, no friends, and a great amount of anxiety.  His parents, who were living in Joplin locked themselves in a closet, and fortunate for them, only the other half of the building was the most damaged.  Thankfully, they had legit insurance, and they are on their way to rebuilding their house.  However, their many acre land used to be a complete forest, and now you can see clear across it.  They needed rocks to be removed because when the trees were uprooted, they brought up with them a lot of rubble.  They still had 3 adorable goats and 9 chickens left, while the rest were lost in the tornado.  One goat, Avalon, was found wandering many blocks away.  Meanwhile, the son who worked as a top chef in the area (and worked alongside Masahuru Morimoto from Iron Chef), told us the difficulty of feeding hundreds of people without electricity and other conveniences after the storm.

We were demolishing the ruins of another house, when one member of the group found a business card with the owner's name and contact info.  She contacted them, and found that it was a reverend and his wife.  Some of their belongings were salvaged from the ruin - things that they had thought they would never see again.

Other interesting things:

  • One of the volunteers is building a humongous steel archangel in Joplin.
  • When asked what was the one thing people would change about Joplin, most people said to have the trees back.  (b/c Joplin used to be very heavily forested).
  • 18+ people survived in a gas station beer cooler: http://www.abovetopsecret.com/forum/thread708605/pg1 It's interesting to hear one person calling "I love everyone, man" and someone else calling out "Jesus."
Pray for all those families who experienced losses!

Fun stuff on the trip:

  • Waterfall in Joplin
  • Visit Chicken Annie's
  • Three Corners (Oklahoma, Kansas, Missouri)
  • 16-hr cooked BBQ: so tender, amazing sauce.  Apparently the sauce is so secretive that it's locked away in the man's father's safe and the man who made this won't get the recipe till his father passes away.  He also has to buy the sauce from his father!





Friday, August 19, 2011

Blonde, Asian, non-smoking pharmacist named Deborah

Apparently these are the traits of high earning women:

  • Named Deborah
  • Asian, blond (i'm assuming it's "or" as opposed to "and", unless there are blond asians, which is just weird)
  • Born in Westlake, TX
  • Attractive - maybe I should start putting on those fake eyelashes
  • Tall - hm...what if i'm tall in asian standards?
  • Left-handed
  • Non-smoker
  • Single and childless
  • Eldest child
  • Pharmacist, more educated
  • Assertive - darn, i gotta work on this one
  • Drinker - really? man, this doesn't fit well with being asian.  It's like an oxymoron.
  • Current residence of Washington DC
  • Good credit report
  • 25 lb lighter than average weight for height - Seriously? That would make me anorexic - seriously, that's just not right.
Okay, sure, certain traits are good to make more money...but at the expense of the valuable things in life is just not worth it.