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Saturday, August 27, 2022

Montage at Palmetto Buff

 Staying at the Montage (for AB's conference) was so luxurious. It's probably one of the nicest hotels I've stayed at. 

We got to stay at a cottage the size of our house. Ok, not that big, but the bathroom was at least the size of ours. And the cottage was probably the size of our first floor not counting the master. 

Very nice things: 

*Bike with child burley attachment to go everywhere, or can call for golf cart to shuttle us around.

*Sauna in our giant bathroom shower stall 

*Yoga, pilates, exercise classes

*All kinds of amenities like insect repellent, slippers, housekeeping twice a day with people coming to "turn down the lights" in the evening. 

*Giant cottages with huge rooms and bathrooms right between the lagoon and bay, looking out onto the water.

*Clay tennis courts 

*Concierge will open doors and take our luggage for us.

*Free cookie and lemonade hour every day. Also s'mores at night 

*AC on full blast with fireplace on in the library.

*2 enormous tree houses

*Water front cabins


Not so nice things:

*Having to care for a 9 month old in a new place that's not childproof by myself.

*Deer flies who suck my blood. They are apparently attracted to dark clothing and movement. 

*Crying/tired baby on a bike trailer when I'm still 10 min from hotel - no way to hold him while biking!


Giant 5 story tree house




















Baby 7mo to 1 year

3/28/22 7mo Baobao has gotten more mobile so we are preparing our house accordingly. He's usually very happy, and caretakers and strangers love to smile at him. The caretakers at church talk about how he never cries there. But I'm pretty sure he's going to start having stranger anxiety! This stage of life has been very pleasant for us, because of his frequent laughter and consistent sleep through the night. We also resumed several pre-baby activities recently, including sports, games, and yw's birthday BBQ celebration. These events are still a little tricky because one of us still needs to watch him at all times. Unless he's sleeping, but it's getting harder and harder for him to sleep outside.

Also last day of pumping! So relieved! Not sad at all!! So happy to be not tied and have to carry around so many things! I slowly weaned down for a month (pumping 4 times a day at 6mo, and then 3, 2, 1, after 36hr, stop). 

Now we've tried so many foods! But he's starting to eat less and less formula. Not just a little less but a lot less! 

3/30/30 shortly after turning 7 month, Baobao started crawling! Man, he learned quickly! He will crawl very fast to get his butt paste 🤣.

4/3/22 7.25mo: got his first tooth! Thought only a sliver, but I felt it when he tried to gnaw on my finger. Maybe that's why he hadn't been eating as well or having trouble going to sleep. 

4/7/22 Baobao has been shaking his head when he eats solids. And sometimes with formula. So strange. Does it mean he doesn't like it? 🤷

4/18/22 Every day he seems to do something new. He started taking a few steps while holding the fence. We were worried that he didn't talk very much for a few weeks. But it turned out he was focusing on his motor skills, and once he started crawling and pulling to stand, he started talking a lot! 

Solids have been very messy. Maybe I'm trying to increase the textures too early. He does like and eat the purees really quickly. He also seems to like toast.

Alan still can't hold him in the normal cradle hold. So strange. Yw: "I think it's because I tell you to do it, so you are rebelling."

Ab: my theory is correct that it would be easier for us when he starts crawling because he can entertain himself. We do have to watch him carefully because he tries to pull up to stand on things that are unstable.


4/26/22

Yw came back from trip to NY to visit friends while AB took care of Baobao for 4.5 days. YW was uncertain how things will go, while AB did a fantastic job. How did you do it? AB: I put baobao in the playpen so I could eat and go to the bathroom. Then we would play together for a while. I would feed him simple solid foods, then return him to the playpen while I cleaned up the mess. Last, we would walk outside or read to prepare for his nap. Fortunately, he was well behaved during these four days, and YW got food for me in advance. One time I was tired and just rested while BaoBao struggle to fall asleep. Eventually I did go up and feed him because he got hungry.  YW missed AB and BaoBao so much. 

Baobao 17.4lb. Getting closer to 25 percentile! Maybe 21? Height about 27" (10 percentile) tho...seems to be growing slower? 🤷


5/11/22 8.5 months 

Baobao is getting very good at standing without falling. He is climbing up the stairs. And he is back to talking more like "babamama." He can eat some textured foods and eats some finger foods. But he prefers the purees, which he is very well now.



5/5/22

He is crawling up stairs now! More fun at the playground because he can go up. 


5/25/22 9 months almost 

In addition to two bottom teeth, now he has top teeth (barely)!

Things that he finds funny include: 

"GameStop"

Making farting noises.

Throwing firewood on a fire. 

Sweeping off leaves from a play structure with my foot.

Saying "Amen" really enthusiastically in the "if you're happy and you know it say amen" song.

When AB makes the cicada sound 

Nice dog kisses 

When he's tired and you kiss him on the cheeks



We took him on a trip to HC and SC's wedding in Ohio and AB's conference in South Carolina. Boy was it hard! His sleep was all thrown off so he had a ton of trouble going and staying asleep in the hotel. He was also teething! Plus AB had to be in a conference from early morning to late at night, so I had to take care of him while he was having trouble sleeping 😵‍💫. Fortunately, he was still able to nap a bit during the day so I could catch up on sleep. And also AB's conference was at a super fancy hotel so we could put him in a semi difference section of the cottage and we didn't have to worry about him crying and waking everyone. Also I could use up endless amounts of towels. Also had to figure out how to go to the bathroom and shower myself while keeping him from getting into things.  Ended up putting him on my lap when I went to the bathroom and taking a shower with him in the shower while he poked his fingers in the shower drain holes.


6/7/22 9.25mo

Baobao got sick! We think rsv from visiting a friend who's kid was sick 😷. He has still been pretty active, but he has been getting sleepy earlier. His appetite has also dramatically decreased. Sometimes he would only drink one ounce, when in the past he would drink seven. Got some saline, Zarbees, benadryl, tylenol. But he does not like having things put into his mouth or nose.  Even though it's probably just a cold virus, it's still stressing me out! We hope he will get better soon! 

Baobao managed to climb all the way up the stairs. And he has wanted to do it more times despite being sick! Sometimes he requests us to walk him around (stands up grabbing our leg). 

He babbles sometimes, but recently mostly blowing a lot of raspberries. 


6/29-7/4 successfully went to Grand Teton and Yellowstone. It was difficult going in and out of the car all the time and scheduling around his naps. Fortunately he can have one bad nap a day. 


7/22/22 11.75mo

Baobao can take a few steps by himself and successfully squat and then take a few more steps! So cute! He also likes to open all the cabinet doors and climb on things like stairs, fence, his high chair. He loves playing with the robot vacuum but when it starts vacuuming, he gets scared. He loves playing with water. He loves splash pads and loves stick his hand out to try to grab the water spraying up at Evelyn's park. 

Baobao is starting to have memory of places. Every time we go on the walk and we turn the corner, he knows to stick out his hand to signal that he wants to touch the bushes. Whenever we bring him to the closet, he knows where the little ant bait is and makes a beeline for it, even if he can't see it. 


8/23/22 almost 1 yr

Baobao is walking like a champ!

Few weeks ago, Baobao started throwing little tantrums when he gets a toy (or our stuff) taken away. He will sit on the ground and throw his head and body forward onto the ground and cry. It's actually quite funny to watch such a little bean do this. Can't believe he already throws tantrums. 

We visited Seattle a week ago and went to a retreat at Westport. It was fun but also didn't like the traffic that made the drive 4 hours instead of normal 2.5. Fortunately he slept for a portion of the ride, however there was a long period when he had trouble going to sleep and he was crying a lot. Also being a cabin and outdoors, it was difficult to keep him from chewing on his really dirty hands, since he still falls and puts his hands down on the ground (even if he didn't fall, he would still touch everything on the ground). He really enjoyed the beach and playing with the stand, but he definitely stuck his sandy fingers in his mouth a few times. He enjoyed the waves, but the water was too cold for him to swim in. Back in Seattle, he had fun in the water and the beach. We started giving him whatever food we ate, but cut up. He really loved the food because my mom is such a good cook. He ate so much and pooped so much (sometimes 3- 4 times a day!).

Baobao likes to click the washing machine buttons and watch it spin. But sometimes when it starts, it scares him. 

He is such a good climber! He does pull ups on the freezer bar, climbs the baby fence, and recently climbed up on top of our kitchen island via his high chair. 

Occasionally he would say "Mama" when he wants me to pick him up. And he'll say "baba" too. One time he said "duck duck" - but maybe it was just a random sound to him. He does seem to enjoy searching for his little rubber duckie when I move it around. His most common noise is "onhhhhh."


Funny quotes: 

Ab (speaking for Baobao): "How do you like it when I stick my finger in your nose?". Baobao sticks finger in mom's nose. 

(This is in regards to us always trying to clean out his nose because he has such big ugly boogers.)


While changing baobao's diaper: yw: "A piece of poop just flew away in the wind."


YW: I wonder what it feels like to have teeth on the bottom and no teeth on top.


YW: When he falls, it's almost comical.


YW: One smile, and it makes it all worthwhile.


*Baobao clicks tongue*

YW: Baobao, we don't speak a language that involves clicking!


Ab: Baobao uses his head as a drill.

Baobao got stuck under the bed. And in the chair.






Thursday, July 14, 2022

Yellowstone and Grand Teton

Yellowstone and Grand Teton





Used Gypsy app: $15 for a driving tour, gives info and descriptions without reception. Very nice!

Day 1:

Fountain Flat Dr.: see bison with their young crossing the river.



Silex pool beautiful blue in middle.



Fountain paint pots where microorganisms turn minerals into sulfuric acid which then turn rock into clay that bubble up.



Jet geyser shoots up every few minutes. 


We missed Fountain geyser every 3-4hr by a bit.

Clepsydra gyser (pic) that keeps on erupting.



Kepler cascades drops 150m down multiple steps. Right by the road.

Didn't realize Yellowstone is on a huge hot spot and could erupt and be a huge volcano.


Grand Teton

Grand Teton Viewpoint (on drive down from Yellowstone)

Staying at Colter Bay. 

Cabins are close to the bay with a nice Lakeshore trail looking out towards Grand Teton. Didn't realize Tetons are so spectacular because they seem to rise out of the water, without surrounding hills because they are formed by plates shifting over one another, not two colliding. 



Jenny lake ferry hike to hidden lake and inspiration point. We saw a grizzly bear crossing the lake!


Schwabacker Landing: parking right by the river and pond and got to see a Moose munching in the pond!




Sentinel Drive had 2 different viewpoints of Jackson Hole



We saw this Elk right along the side of the road: 


Day 2 Teton

Bradley and Taggart lake hike. About 5mi rt. It had some elevation but pretty easy and very scenic the entire way. The calm water of Taggart and it's reflection of the Tetons was so beautiful. We also met some people from Meyerland, Houston with a 15mo! 

Bradley Lake


Taggart Lake (closer)


Yellowstone

We were lucky when we first got there, there was a old faithful eruption. We only had to wait 5 minutes!




And then we thought that we would be lucky to get see the Grand Geyser, but because Rift geyser had erupted yesterday, it made the timing off. We waited an extra hour out of the waiting period. And then we had to leave cuz Baobao couldn't stand it anymore. But then as we were approaching the old faithful inn, we saw the eruption in in the distance. It really was quite grand.



We want the rest of that upper geyser basin and saw some beautiful springs and geysers.


Infant geyser

Giant geyser hadn't erupted since 2019. But it looked giant.

Sawmill geyser happened to be erupting while we walked by, causing us to get splashed. 



Spa geyser looked very inviting.

Morning geyser at the end was so clear and beautiful. It was totally worth it to walk all the way to end.



Castle geyser looked like a castle 


Grotto geyser was strangely shaped. Theory is that it formed on stumps.



While we were waiting for grand geyser, we saw Daisy erupt and Old Faithful again. And then another time while feeding Baobao. And behive erupted as we were leaving.

Daisy

Old Faithful from the Inn


The old faithful inn was definitely worth a visit! Looks like a forest on the inside! 


Yellowstone continued:

In the early cool morning, all the geysers and steam vents are steamy: looks like a bit kitchen! 

Turquoise Pool: 



Excelsior geyser hasn't erupted in a long time. But last time, it was so forceful, it messed up it's geyser plumbing. 


Grand Prismatic Spring is so impressive. The colors are like the rainbow, formed by super-heat loving organism. 




Better view is from the viewpoint (park at the Fairy falls parking lot).


Bison decided to cross the road when we parked: 


Yellowstone continued (Norris geysers): Apparently these are the hottest geysers in the world!






Steamboat geyser is the largest in the world. But it could erupt anywhere from 4 days to 50 years. We only caught a small splutter.

Cistern spring drains away when Steamboat erupts: 




Most acidic geyser: 

So blue! 

Caught Vixen geyser erupting 


Grand Canyon of Yellowstone: apparently this picture drew people to come to Yellowstone way back in the day. 


In the morning, we saw a bear cross the road!

Big sky resort: nice to have ski lifts to go up see the view of lone peak



Sunday, June 26, 2022

Milestones W

Motor

3.5mo: turn back to front left side.
4.9mo: turn front to back few times (rare)
4-5?mo: put things in mouth
5.25mo: tripod Ppl
6 mo: turn front to back. Turn back to front on right side. Sit without tripod
6.5mo: sitting with hands up, but still topple sometimes. Gets on knees and scoots backwards or shifts back and forth.
6.75mo: stand with hands on couch
7mo: few steps forward while crawling. And few days later: crawling!
7.25mo: pulled up to stand! (Very wobbly at first)
7.75mo: rudimentary pincer grasp first time. Took few steps while holding onto fence.
8mo: cruise, turn the page with his hand, bang blocks together
8.25mo: crawling up stairs. Transfer one hand to other.
10mo: standing 10 seconds, first steps! (More like falling) 
10.5mo: few steps
10.75mo: stand and walk! 
13mo: put shapes in shape box
15mo: stack 2 blocks, running
15.5mo: open/close oatmeal lids, climb up chair
18mo: eat with spoon pretty well, drink from open cup. 
3y 1mo: holding pencil correctly
3y 4mo: draw person with head, hair, legs, arms.



Speech: 
2mo: coo
3mo: "conversation"
4mo: deep belly laugh, blowing raspberries
5mo: tons of conversation and babbling. "Dadadada"
7mo: not talking as much. 🤷
9mo: randomly mamma, dadda
1yo: mamma when want me to pick him up
18mo: about 20+ words
22mo: gaining words rapidly


Social:
Born: smile in sleep
1mo: track faces. Smile when awake. 
Between 5-7mo: recognize "Baobao"
6mo: look for us when gone
7.25mo: shake his head when he doesn't like a food
12mo: wave
15-16mo: ask for things he wants like "tu" "baobao"
22-26mo: bad temper, tantrums

Monday, March 28, 2022

Baby 6mo

 2/26/22 (6mo)

This is such a cute age! He is sleeping longer (9-9:30 to 7:30-8), his interacting more, he has little laughing fits, and he is so adorable! 

We are a little worried that he seems to get angry really easily, I'm hoping it's just because he's still a little. Instead of crying sometimes he just makes angry grunts. 

We try some more foods like zucchini, carrots, strawberry. At one point he did have some diarrhea one day, and we thought maybe it was from old yogurt but then he also had eaten a whole tub of recalled formula. 🤷


2/27/22

Petted his first chicken..not amused. 😅


3/4/22 

He started turning to his right! Which makes for difficult sleep time because he would get stuck on his stomach and be upset and not sleep. Prior when he did that only to the left, we would put him close to the left and he wouldn't be able to turn..but now we can't do that since he is turning both sides. First day we had to flip him over. But second day he learned it was ok to sleep on his stomach. And then I saw he learned to turn back onto his back! Hopefully sleeping won't be an issue! 

Since he sleeps after being awake for 2.5 hours, we sometimes run into the night time issue where last nap ended at 4p and next nap starting at 6p. Do we let him keep sleeping and then risk him waking super early or do we wake him for another awake time? Fortunately recently when we've been waking him up around 7:30 to 8:00 p.m., he will go back to sleep around 9-9:30 p.m. Lately we've been feeding him right after waking, when he's a little bit more subdued, otherwise he gets super excited and doesn't want to eat very much. We are still doing some dream feedings around 11:00 p.m., and sometimes even during the day when we see him stirring from his nap. He can rotate 360 on his tummy (like if there is a toy on his left, he can turn there).

We've been trying to give him food after an hour or two hours of milk. We noticed that if he had too much milk before, he might vomit.

His eyes and cheeks have gotten bigger so many people comment on how cute he is, even strangers. Right now he seems like a very happy baby, and he gets so excited in the mornings and after he wakes up. He smiles so much and likes to laugh and kick and jump. He is always breathing hard from his excitement. His cheeks are getting big and jiggly!

I'm happy that I reached 6 months of pumping, so I'm trying to reduce it. I've been slowly moving to pump sessions closer together. At one point I think I went too fast and started having some tenderness, but it resolved after a day after I took some measures: heat, massage, lecithin, probiotics, hot shower, a little more frequent pumping. Now, pumping twice a day isn't too time consuming, and I feel more like a normal person. It's nice that I don't have to worry about it during the day, and I don't have to schedule around it. My supply has continued to drop consistently, which is good for not having engorgement and clogged ducts. 

3/7/22

Started getting on his knees and scooting backwards. 😂

He also has had a major drop in bottle/formula/milk during the day. Int he morning it seems like he is too excited and will drink max 4oz. Hoping he makes up for it in solids, but I'm not too sure. Sometimes we would offer bottle all the time seeing he is making sucking motion with his mouth, and he would refuse 10 times before he will take down 7oz when he is half asleep. So strange that he eats so much better half asleep. Talked to coworker and she says sometimes babies are like that. And maybe see how things go, but may need to wean him off the bad habit. But since his weight has always been low, AB is hesitant to stop dream feeding. 

We were at Teahouse and the waiter came by multiple times to look at him. At a Persian restaurant the waitress said he was "so cute!" And several other people at grocery stores and restaurants made comments too. 


3/21/22

He put one hand forward while on his knees! 

This is really a great time! He is interactive, smiles a lot, laughs, and doesn't move around yet so I don't have to chase him. 😂 Such a cute age! 



Funny quotes: 

Yw: Baobao why are you always breathing so hard?

After tummy time and kicking and Baobao puts his head down to rest: Ab: Baobao got tired.